Life after Cancer
Cancer can often be a turning point in ones life. Some see it as a wakeup call, that something has to shift or change within the current life style. I have known many people who have changed their lives,or they have seeked out the spiritual side of themselves, where before they only questioned, but now discovered.
Cancer for some has awakened a new path,a new journey of self discovery, often leading to dramatic changes for the better in ones life. Cancer not only affects you, the "Victim" but also the whole family. It is important not to feel a "Victim" as you are a human being undergoing a transformational change.
Cancer is hard and difficult to come to terms with.
But Cancer can be beaten.
I have found that Love and support from friends and family is important.
However I have met many Cancer Patients,who find it hard to accept help from other people. Sometimes this can be hard if you have always been the "PeoplePleaser".
Cancer sometimes affects a person when the lesson is to accept help.Pushing the self until it is exhausted only depletes ones health.
Suppressing past issues and hurts will only eat away at the physical causing "Cancer".
"Sheilas Story"
In 2002 I met a woman who was frail and yellow with Jaundice. She was accompanied by her husband. They had been receiving healing,but felt the need to talk and receive healing from a group (Alternative World Healing Circle)in a safe place.
They entered the healing room and joined 1ohealers who were in the room.
Neither of them had been to a healing circle before.
We gave them an opportunity to talk.
The man listened to his wife with his head bowed downwards.
His wife spoke,but with much anger.
She had worked as a driver for the local hospital taking Cancer patients to hospital and her husband an ambulance driver
We all listened with an open heart.
The word "ear" existswithin "Heart"
There was clearly "Anger" in her words,not just about Cancer, but her whole life.
Reiki benefits from an intention
After listening to her story,we asked her to lie down on the healing bed. Each healer took a position that they felt they wanted to connect with.Before admistering the healing we asked her for her intention for the healing session.
She commented "Ifyou were to offer me two hands,one being the hand of life and the other, the hand of death,then I want to take the hand of death. I want to die.
Now these words were very powerful,and quite hard to accept,even for ourselves.
When we connect to the light of the universe, the heavens, we ask for the highest intention to be met.As it is not "my will,but thy will."
Sheila received 30minutes of healing from 10 healers, working hands on and within the aura.
Her Partner sat observing in a slight meditational state. At one point there was a slight gasp from him as he witnessed "White Light". My guide also camein with her scent of parma violets as it filled the room.
When we finished the healing session,sheila,sat upright, tears in her eyes, and explained that she now knew, why she had Cancer.
She explained that when she was 4 years old until she was 15 she was a victim of abuse.This secret she carried with her all her life. She supressed it,never telling anyone, but that pain, had eaten away at her. The Primary Cancer she had was in the Pancreas. It is said in Metaphysical termsthat the Liver/Pancreas represents unresolved anger issues.
For a further three weeks, wewent to visit sheila in her home. She was dying.By coming to terms with her pain she was able to accept what happened. The healing was a process that was able to help the release from one world to another.
The day before she passed away, her head turned to the left as though searching forthe tunnel of white light and I holding her frail jaundiced hand,we created a visual meditational prayer to enable her to cross over.
I asked if there was any family member that she was able to connect with on a heart level.Sadly there was not,asthere had been much pain in the family.But one, her pet cat called "Timmy". We all visualised "Timmy" coming out of the light to greet her and asked her to follow timmy back into the light.
It was as though sheila was holding on....
That was until she received a call from a daughter she had not spoken to for many years....
In the early hours of the morning,we received a call to say that sheila had passed.
As a thank you for the healing journey she had asked her partner to give us a statue entitled "Spring Maiden". This we still have in our garden.
Her other request was to speak the ulergy ather funeral, the final departure.
Sheila had brought much happiness into other peoples lives, and still does through the story of this tale.
What sheila forgot was to bring happiness into her own life, when she had a life.
"Pleasing others does not heal your own pain."
Her Partner realised his potential and went on to heal himself and then others.
Can you see yourself within this true story?
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